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When Adoption Reunion Ends in Disappointment: The Complex Journey of Samuel’s Search for His Birth Mother
Not every adoption reunion ends in joy. Samuel’s journey reveals the emotional complexity behind closed doors, missed connections, and the quiet courage to keep searching.

Maureen O'Connor
Oct 35 min read


Crossing the Bar: A Poetic Heirloom in Our New Zealand Family
Poetry as Emotional Heirlooms: How Tennyson’s ‘Crossing the Bar’ Became Our Family’s Farewell

Maureen O'Connor
Sep 195 min read
Secret Sex: What Genealogy Really Reveals
What happens when DNA evidence reveals that your ancestors weren’t quite who the records claimed? In this post, I explore the fallout from exposing long-hidden truths—and why genealogy is, at its core, a record of human relationships, messy or not.

Maureen O'Connor
Aug 313 min read


Family Stories vs. Genealogical Proof: Is There Room for Both?
Family stories are powerful—but they don’t always match the historical record. In this post, I explore how genealogists balance memory and documented proof, and why both have a place in family history.

Maureen O'Connor
Aug 312 min read
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